Here we are—three weeks into 2025—and I’m hearing it loud and clear: “I want to level up this year. I want to be the best version of myself. I want to take my studio to the next level.”

That’s amazing! But here’s the deal: some of you have a plan, some of you don’t, and a lot of you are stuck in neutral, waiting for things to magically change.

Let me hit you with the truth: if you’re not actively growing, you’re standing still. And if you’re standing still, someone else is passing you by.

So, how do we level up this year? Let’s break it down.

Step 1: Get a Mentor

You’ve probably heard this before, but let me be crystal clear: if you want to level up, having a mentor is non-negotiable.

Here’s why:
1️⃣ Mentors Save You Time: A good mentor helps you collapse time. They’ve already walked the path you’re on and can show you the shortcuts, the traps to avoid, and the fastest way to success.
2️⃣ Learn From Their Experience: Whether you’re trying to grow your student base, improve retentio...

Ego: Your Greatest Ally or Your Biggest Obstacle?

In the fast-paced world of martial arts studio ownership, confidence is critical. It fuels ambition, helps you tackle challenges head-on, and drives you to set ambitious goals for yourself and your team.

But there’s a catch.

Left unchecked, ego can quickly transform from an asset into a liability. It can blind you to feedback, strain relationships, and—most dangerously—stall your progress.

The good news?

You’re in control. When balanced with humility and self-awareness, ego becomes a powerful tool that not only sharpens your leadership but also strengthens your studio’s culture and community.

Unchecked Ego Stunts Growth

Have you ever dismissed feedback from a student, parent, or instructor because you felt you “already knew the answer”? Or resisted trying a new approach because you believed your way was the only way?

That’s ego talking.

Unchecked, it creates a false sense of invincibility. You might think, “I’ve been running th...

Are You Overthinking Yourself Out of Progress?

Here’s a truth bomb: we’re all doing too much worrying and not enough living.

Every day, we stress about things we can’t control. We overthink decisions, delay opportunities, and let fear of failure keep us stuck. And do you know what happens when we do this for too long?

We trade our momentum for regret.

And regret? That’s the scariest thing I can imagine.

What Regret Really Looks Like

If you’ve ever sat down with someone in their 80s or 90s—someone who didn’t get to chase their dreams—you’ve seen it. It’s the look of “I wish I had…”.

• “I wish I had spent more time with my family.”
• “I wish I had taken the leap on my dream business.”
• “I wish I had stopped worrying so much about what others thought.”

That pain is hard to ignore.

Regret doesn’t hit you overnight. It creeps in slowly—when you wait for the “perfect time,” when you second-guess decisions, and when you let fear of failure make your choices for you.

Let me say t...